You don't have to like yourself to love yourself. But you do have to love yourself to acheive the things you want. Frustration is a short lived fuel that hasn't gotten you to the finish line or given you the consistency you need.
 
Come learn a different definition of self-love that is accessible right now. It's not self acceptance and it won't leave you trapped in contentment of your current life that you want to change. It will give you the ability to get up again, and again, and again and finally realize the change you want.